Tips Relationship for Man
The Art of Listening
You have to learn to be a patient listener and this will help solve most of your problems every single time you have one. Sometimes, in the hurry of reaching to a conclusion, we don’t tend to actually listen but just hear and make our point. All the times you’ve tried doing that, your partner has understood it, and has not felt good about it. When you’re dating someone, it’s very important you listen to her. If you don’t, she’ll eventually stop telling you what’s in her mind which will in turn lead to no sharing of thoughts and feelings. The substance from your relationship will eventually fade away.
The Consciousness of Thought
Being the man in the relationship, you have to time and again see if your girlfriend is alright. It’s your duty to protect her from all the problems in her life to the best of your capability. If you fail to understand a problem and help her out, the least you have to be careful about is not being a reason for problems. You need to consciously think about her well-being and her safety in terms of emotional disasters. Always ask her if she’s doing fine, and if there is anything that she needs. Such simple gestures will show her that you really love her.
The Need of Change
Every relationship needs a small quota of change every now and then, and this has to be done from both sides. However, girls are known to be shy and there is no harm if you initiate. Take her out for a drive once in a while, the drive being just a small one mile stretch to her favorite ice cream parlor. Do stuff together and try to be her companion rather than being a boyfriend who does what he should. Try to focus more on strengthening the bond between you two, than just doing something cliched. Go out for a vacation once every few months. As humans, we all get bored of the same surroundings and the same people. We all love our homes but we need to step out every now and then, don’t we?
The Freedom of Expression
One of the most important relationship tips for men, this has a dual meaning that you need to understand. First, you need to be comfortable in expressing what you feel and what you want you think. If you’re not comfortable, you need to work on it and maybe even talk it out to her. Before doing one of these, you cannot hold her responsible for not understanding you. Second, just like you may not be comfortable to talk about a few things, your partner might feel the same about certain things. In that case, you need to tell her that she can come and discuss anything with you and that you won’t judge her wrong.
The Place of Comfort
Girls take a very long time to call a relationship their comfort zone. For this reason, you need to go out of your way to make her feel uncomfortable. A little bit of understanding and little bit of compassion can make this happen. It’s just a matter of time till she comes and tells you how comfortable you make her feel. Discomfort in a relationship is like losing the very basis of a relationship so make sure that doesn’t happen in your case.