Ideas for a Romantic
So, the first date is over. It went well, there was a chemistry, click, and everything else that you need to make the first date awesome. It ended on a great note. You said you will call him/her. So what should be your next step? Where do you invite him/her to meet? What should you say? Before we get down to answering those questions, first you need to ask yourself one question, what does a second date mean? Do you see yourself dating that person? Is it just a way to get closer to the other person or do you wish to know him/her better? If this date is a way to know the person better and develop a better understanding with each other, then the following date ideas should work out for you.
This idea has universal applicability. Set up a cozy candlelight dinner at one of her favorite cuisine restaurants. Pick her up from her house, right from her door. Order a good meal, of her choice. You could either go for a drive or a walk post dinner. A movie is quite a cliched idea, so try to steer clear of that, unless she really wants to watch one. Roses and wine are an inherent part of a romantic date. So you could try that out, as well.
This idea is for all those who are still unsure of their feelings about the person. Set up a casual yet classy coffee date. Ask her to meet you at the cafe, but, if she asks to be picked up, you could do that, as well. For a coffee date, the best bet would be a cozy coffee house, that is not very noisy. As the aim of this date is to know each other, a nice quiet coffee house is the element of requirement. This idea is great to get comfortable with each other.
Outdoor Fun Date
This idea is a great way to spend quality time with each other. You could go trekking or skiing together or even try out bungee jumping. These ideas for a fun date are great. On such a date you will develop an understanding of each other, that will make you really good friends, if not lovers. You need to make sure that even she is willing to try out these activities. More so, the adrenaline rush of these activities is enough to get you closer to each other.
Tips and Ideas for a Second Date
- Pick her up from her door. In case you meet any of her family members or roommates, be courteous and greet them.
- Do not try to rush her into intimacy. It will put a solid doubt in her mind, about your intentions.
- Treat her with respect, whether you wish to meet her again or not.
- Remember, women love chivalry, not chauvinism. So, act accordingly.